My book
Brief Description:
In this powerful and often hilarious memoir, the author takes you on a rollercoaster through the absurdities and heartaches of growing up in the 50’s—under the ever-watchful eyes of family, religion, and society. All of which seemed hell-bent on shaping her into a mold about as comfortable as a pair of hand me down shoes two sizes too small. We see how one woman’s individuality was squashed through restriction, intimidation, and control and how that little spark inside her dimmed faster than a candle in the wind.
The memoir dives into the relentless pressure to conform, where rules were so strict and roles so rigid that they made a straitjacket look roomy. She stifles her voice, represses her essence, and pretends to be a Stepford Wife in a time when anything else felt like a crime.
As the author matures (and maybe gets a little wiser), she discovers that true freedom is found in embracing who you really are—without apology and definitely without fear of the nuns. She learns that the characteristics that made her weird growing up are now
her superpowers.
Through raw honesty, laughs, and moments of profound clarity, this memoir celebrates the messy, glorious process of self-discovery—the first time you see your true self and think, "Wait, I look fabulous!"
It's a triumphant journey of reclaiming power, making your own rules, and deciding who you want to be without asking for permission. This book is a must-read for anyone who’s ever felt silenced, overlooked, or diminished—offering both a mirror and a roadmap to self-empowerment and resilience, and enough self-love to make a self-help
guru jealous.
About the Author
Mary DeYon is an author, teacher, coach, hypnotherapist, and energy healer who specializes in blending humor with personal growth and healing. With a deep commitment to helping others find balance and joy, she brings a light hearted approach to life’s challenges. A spirited, fun-loving mom and grandma, Mary combines her nurturing side with her passion for empowering others to create meaningful change. She is living her dream in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, where she enjoys the natural
beauty and vibrant community. When she's not writing or working with clients, you can find her laughing with her son, granddaughters and friends, or indulging in a good book.
